In the larger world, tribalism is an enormous problem, as it ever has been: both strength and idiocy borne from belonging.

I needed my own territory, and I didn't know how I was going to get it. And so I took my frustrations and plugged them into someone entirely different from me. I wanted to see if I could slip into someone else's skin.

I spent my entire youth being in love with gay men because they were the most interesting and compassionate people I knew.

There is so much inherent drama in the matter of change. Disappointment in yourself and others, coping with the fact that life is essentially shipwreck, becoming a person you yourself could not imagine yourself to be, for good and for bad, and then ultimately there is the basic matter of loss.