What we really need to look at is gender fluidity and the idea that gender can be customised however you want.

I feel like so much of mainstream feminism springs from the second wave, which was essentially a discourse spearheaded by white, cisgender, upper middle class women. I feel - especially as I'm trying to negotiate this new female space with the feminism that's available to me - there are a lot of places where I'm disenfranchised.

Sexuality is who you want to be with. Gender identity is who you want to be in the world.

If you don't know somebody, whether you're inquiring into their sex or their gender, it's invasive.

I am single and without children. I'm actually one of those people who's just never had a great desire to have kids.

I knew I was Yoruba and Nigerian for the first 9 years of my life. I did not become conscious of my color and all that came with it until I moved to the United States with my family.

It's hard to separate your remembered childhood and its emotional legacy from the childhoods that are being lived out in your house, by your children. If you're lucky, your kids will help you make that distinction.

What a crazy idea to put me on a family show!