Gillian Flynn

I mostly go under the radar, which is fantastic because I would not be a good famous person. ”

Being a novelist, you can roam around with a story and indulge yourself. ”

I think that women really entwine with the people that they become close to in a way that men don't - and so, when they are forced to disentwine, you can't remove the vines without doing some damage. ”

I don't think I'm naturally a good person. I think some people have an innate goodness to them, and I am sort of proud of the fact that I kind of keep myself in check, probably because I have awesome parents. ”

Very quickly, I discovered I did not have what it takes to be a good crime reporter: I was too unassertive and a little bit wimpy. It was very clear that was not what I was going to do, but I loved journalism, and I'm the daughter of a film professor, and my mom taught reading. ”

I'm not much of a procedural person. That's not what I'm interested in. ”

As much as I really like the screenwriting thing, the novel is where the author has so much control. ”

What I read and what I go to the movies for is not to find a best friend, not to find inspirations, not necessarily for a hero's journey. It's to be involved with characters that are maybe incredibly different from me, that may be incredibly bad but that feel authentic. ”

In marriage, it's best to keep perspective. Get out of your head and get some perspective. ”

I have two kids, and anyone who has a kid in order to feel loved is going to be in trouble because kids are first and foremost all about themselves. They'll say they love you, but 10 seconds later they'll turn on you. ”