Gary Chapman

One of the things I say is, 'You cannot control your spouse, but you can influence your spouse.' And one of the ways to influence your spouse is to make sure you are meeting their need for love. ”

If you are sitting on the couch with the TV off, and you are looking into each other's eyes and talking, that is quality time - so is taking a walk or going out to eat, so long as you are communicating with each other. ”

We can't determine our emotions, but we can choose our attitudes and actions. ”

I think that in today's world, by nature, we are all self-centered. And that often leads to selfishness. ”

If we can develop the character and work with God, then let him develop the character of Christ in us, we're going to become the best possible husband, the best possible wife. ”